HOW TO PREVENT YOUR PARTNER FROM CHEATING

HOW TO PREVENT YOUR PARTNER FROM CHEATING

I do wonder if the destination of the journey to motherhood of some ladies makes them to forget the route of which the journey began! What do I mean? I have seen many married ladies with the complaint that their husbands is cheating on them despite having one or two kid(s) for him!
Some complain of their husbands not spending time with them at home or taking them out, some that their marriage is still fresh but their husband are no longer showing the love he promised them!
Now lets go down to business, I believe that before both of you got married something in you attracted him by dating you and also motivated him in getting married to you but unfortunately you allowed that weapon of love you had on him to die! Ok, when you both were still dating, you were fixing and keeping your nails so clean and attractive, you changes your hair and even have a style which he cherishes so much that whenever he sees it on you, he can't resist you, you wear a nice perfume that he feels like eating you up whenever he is around you, you do sent him lovely text messages every night before he goes to bed which made him to find you irresistible and ended up making you his wife because he believes it will continue like that as long as you both are together! But immediately after marriage you allowed these things to die in you, so tell me, why he won’t cheat on you by going after those girls that still possess these things.
Husbands cheat on their wives because they are no longer the person they use to be before they got married! How can he not cheat on you when you have become a liability to him that he even feels sham to bring his friends/colleagues home?
To make your marriage a heaven made on earth you have to play your part as a good wife and not leaving everything to him alone (a tree cannot make a forest) be that lovely, seductive, attractive, hard-working and caring girlfriend he use to kn0w before.
Its alarming how some ladies after getting married and having 0ne or two kid(s), they turn themselves into old granny! They leave their hair unkept like a woman whose husband died, ties wrapper from morning till night, leaves their breast with no bra, leaves their nails unkept and worst still, breast-feed their babies all day without taking a single bath and sleeps afterwards! Tell me why your husband would spend time with you or why he won’t cheat on you by having an affair outside since you have made yourself unattractive to him!
These are ladies whose husbands takes their secretary to dinner parties instead of them!
Its also the fault of a lady who lays 0n a bed like a ghost in the morning and forgot that her husband will eat before going to work!  0nce your husband is up preparing himself for work, you have to be awake also and even help him in dressing up, if he doesn't like eating before going to work, just prepare him a cup of hot tea or coffee!
If you are not a working class lady, beg him to set up a lucrative business for you so you can be support too, don't just stay at home to eat and sleep because the result might be obesity and a lot of men hates such!
If you have a maid/house help, don't turn her into your husband's second wife by allowing her do all your husband's meal, men are easily turn off by the attitude of such ladies because it only show how lazy you are!
Do remember how you sends him romantic text messages when you both were still dating! So, whenever he is out to work, just send him one or two love messages telling him how much he means to you and make sure it comes from the depth of your heart!
Don't be a nagging wife, always appreciate him, dress in a way he can't resist you, keep the house clean, play with him, always make his food ready before he comes back from work and also do welcome his family with open arms!
Some ladies immediately after wedding they call their husband by their names or the name of any of their kids! Oh no, its not so! Thats not romantic, he is still the guy you dated so continue with the pet names!
Don't compare your husband with other men, be contented with what he has got and don't wish to be Mrs John because her husband got her a new car, be yourself!
Ladies, once in a while take your husband and kid(s) out! Don't wait until he does that, like Saturdays take them out to a lovely and quiet place and have fun! You can even drive the car yourself, let him be your wife that day while you being the husband! Make it more romantic! Spend your money on your husband. Make yourselves Presentable so that you can be adorable in the eyes of your husbands.
Make all these and more your weapon of love and your husband will never think of cheating on you.

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