DON'T BE DESPERATE AND LOSE SIGHT

Sexy body and great smile are no guarantee for a successful marriage. In fact 70% of what makes you go crazy over a man in a relationship will mean nothing when you get into marriage so wise up. Why marry a man u will feed and take care of all your life? Why go through hell in something as beautiful and lovely as marriage? Why spend all the time praying for something you can avoid? It is not true that all men are the same. It is not true that all men cheat. It is not true that you are either snatching from or sharing a man with another woman. No man is perfect, but the truth is there are lots of decent men out there who truly know the value of marriage and will do anything to keep their vows. These are the men you should be with. However you must have your eyes to recognize him when you eventually meet him. He might ride a jeep or not, he might be cute or not he might not even have all the qualities you desire now. But the most important thing is for him to be focused. Don't ever get intimidated by the Do's you see every Saturday. Don't be desperate and lose sight of where you are going to. It is better to be married at 35 and be happy than be married at 20 and live in hell while on earth! God will not permit you to marry a destiny destroyer.
If someone is not willing to put a ring on your finger or marry you, DON'T give them the benefits of marriage. If they think that you are good enough to sleep with, let them first make you smile by thinking that you are good enough to marry first. Do not let someone make you sin by making you a mother when they are not willing to make you a wife. Guys being the first cut won't make her stay with you forever and Girls having his baby won't make him stay with you either. If I can read a magazine for free, what is the purpose of buying it? That's why some magazines come with a seal, because they know that you will really appreciate its value and pay the price first. It is time to seal off your life, even if you are no longer a virgin you can still bring back your value and let someone pay off the price first or else they will just read you and dump you for another one. This is one of the reasons why some people are not getting married. It is time to seal off and show your true value. Open your eyes and apply commonsense where it needed.
 As singles, never attempt to make your fiancée happy by compromising your virtues. You will never be able to secure a relationship by offering sex; you will actually jeopardize the relationship because you are violating God’s principles. Sex does not prove your love; it shows your ignorance because every time you offer your body to secure a relationship, you always lose the man or the relationship!

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