10 WRONG REASONS TO GET MARRIED



1. The desire to have non-stop sex and a sleeping mate: Do you want to get married because you need sex badly? Please get this straight, so as not to put your future partner in health hazard.
2. To save, help or because you pity someone: Don't ever agree to marry someone simply because you just pity their condition. This kind of marriage will sap the joy of life from you.
3. For money / financial purpose: you are not in love with the person but you want to marry the fellow simply because he/she is rich. Think again, who told you that you won't make it in life?
4. THE DESIRE TO BE INDEPENDENT AND FREE FROM YOUR PARENTS: Getting married because you are tired of having your parents monitor or control you is not enough a good reason to get married; your husband's parents or relatives could do worse.
5. TO EASE YOUR LONELINESS:  Loneliness is a thing of the mind. Not only singles but married folks too get lonely at times. No spouse will be with you all round the clock. A miserable single will be a miserable partner in marriage. Marriage doesn't solve the problem of loneliness.
There are countless married folks who are living apart from their spouse due to many reasons e.g Job, career pursuit e.t.c.
6. TO BE HAPPY:  You don't have to get married before you live a happy life. Get a life as a single, enjoy life, and make God your source of joy.
Find a reason to laugh everyday and enjoy every opportunity of laughter life presents to you. Marriage is a vacuum, it will be filled with whatsoever you and your partner bring into it.
7. JUST GETTING SICK OF BEING CALLED A SINGLE:  You don't need a man or woman to complete yourself. You are wonderfully and marvelously created. Single-hood is just a phase of your life, enjoy it, pursue a career, set and achieve goals. One day you would wish you are still a single if you rush into marriage simply because you are tired of being a single.
8. ALL MY FRIENDS ARE MARRIED: Don't rush into marriage because all your friends are married with kids.
9. The fantasy to wear a wedding gown.
10. In need of someone to do your laundry, house chores and cooking



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