HOW TO FIND/ ATTRACT AND KEEP A WOMAN OF YOUR DREAM



In this article, I will be sharing some Christian dating and relationship advice for men on how to find the woman of your dreams. If you are truly serious about finding and meeting a beautiful and godly woman that you can spend the rest of your life with, then this will help you.

                                LET GOD DIRECT YOU
As a Christian man, the first step you need to take to find the woman of your dreams is to let God direct you to the woman - which means praying regularly and spending time in fellowship with God, asking God to lead you to the right woman for you.
                   TAKE PRIDE IN YOUR APPEARANCE AND HYGIENE
If you want to attract the woman of your dreams, then there has to be something attractive about you, you don't have to be the most handsome guy in the world, but you do have to make an effort. Take pride in your appearance, shave regularly, wear nice clothes and make sure they are ironed, wear nice shoe, exercise regularly and try and stay in shape, she might want a godly and spiritual man but she also wants him to look good.

Hygiene is also very important, bad breath and body odor is a big no, even if she liked you, if your hygiene isn't up to par, it could mess things up. So invest in some breath mints and a good deodorant and fragrance.

             GET TO KNOW HER – BUILD A FRIENDSHIP
 When you believe that God is speaking to you about a particular lady and you feel a release to go and talk to her, then go and do just that - Talk to her! I am amazed at the number of guys who like a girl but are too scared to even say hello to her. She isn't going to kill you for saying hello.
Just go up to her and introduce yourself. Once you've opened the lines of communication with her, then it will be easy to start building a friendship, you are now no longer strangers, you are now on talking terms, you can now say hello to her every time you see her.

                    LET HER KNOW YOU ARE INTERESTED
While it's good to build a friendship you already know that deep down you want a lot more than just friendship. You've been admiring her and now you are talking with her and you are friends with her, don't leave it too long before you let her know that you are actually interested in her in a serious way. See that's the thing when God is leading you, you might be too forward in your approach but God will somehow still make things work out and she will find herself liking you despite of your not so great approach.
I wouldn't advise you to use those exact same words but do let the girl know you are interested from the get go, so that you both know what is going on and you don't get a "I thought we were just friends" in the future. Also, if you make your intentions know early on, she will let you know whether there is a possibility of something more or not, in which case you know where you stand with her.  Its okay to be scared to talk to her When you find the woman of your dreams, at some point you are going to have to talk to her, the average guy is very scared and nervous to approach a woman, but you are going to have to face your fears.
I would never advice getting someone else to speak to her for you, I think women appreciate it more when a guy is bold enough to come and talk to them himself.
You cant get the woman of your dreams if you are too scared to talk to her, so get rid of your fear and embrace the spirit of boldness God has given you

                                                BE HONEST
Don't be cheesy and don't try to use any dumb chat up lines, don't be cocky and don't try to be a smarty pants or a wise guy. Just be real and honest about who you are, how you feel about her and what you want from her. Say it the way it comes to you, sometimes its not the words that matter to the woman but the heart and sincerity you say it with.
If you like her, tell her you like her, if you find her attractive, tell her you find her attractive, if you think she has a beautiful smile, tell her, if you think she is really pretty, tell her. Be honest about what you feel for and what you want from her

                    DEVELOP YOURSELF SPIRITUALLY  
Christian women want a man who can be their spiritual covering. Christian women want a man that can be the spiritual head of the home, most Christian women will tell you that their ideal man is a man that knows how to pray and a man that knows the word of God and can teach her the word of God.
The chances are the woman of your dreams is looking for the same qualities in her ideal man, and when you prove to be that man, a man that is not only good looking in appearance but also God fearing, a praying man who knows the word and can help her grow, you will have a better chance of getting her to be your woman.

                                              BE YOURSELF 
Don't try to be someone you're not. Be you, if you portray yourself as something or someone you are not just to get her to like you, then you will have to keep on being a fake to keep her. Be proud of who you are, and be you. If you are funny be funny, if you are shy be shy, if you are quiet, be quiet, just be yourself, be real, let her see the real you, so that when she falls for you she falls for the real you.

             KEEP REGULAR CONTACT BUT DON'T STALK
Once you are privileged to get her number, keep in regular contact but don't overdo it, if you are still at that stage where you are just friends getting to know each other, you don't need to call her 5 times a day, you don't even have to call every day, keep in regular contact but be reasonable and sensible about it.

              DON'T CHEAT OR DATE OTHER GIRLS SECRETLY
when you do eventually start dating the woman of your dreams, please be faithful to her. There are some men that even when they have the most beautiful woman in the world they are still looking at other women and tempted to go after other women. The truth is, even when you find the woman of your dreams, there will still be attractive women out there, some of whom might even try to lure you away, please don't fall for their trap.
Be a faithful man, don't be dating multiple girls at the same time, in essence where Christian dating differs from worldly dating is that as Christian we should date with courtship and marriage in mind and therefore there should be a level of commitment and faithfulness.
Nothing will lose you the woman of your dreams quicker than unfaithfulness so don't do it.

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